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Truth: Said by all, heard by none
I do not know how many of you will agree with me but I think we all live in a constant mode of denial. We deny that we like someone, we deny that we ever stole anything from a store, we deny that we dig our nose, we deny our jealousy and then we deny more serious matters.
We think we are are all too grown up and mature to exhibit our pain, distress, happiness, tears, joy, etc. And automatically decide to live in denial.
Many of us take years before finally giving into love, many of us never as adult accept that we are nothing without our parents, many of us never accept our failures, many of bachelors specially boys never accept that they desperatly wish to settle down and stop hunting around.
Denial is dangerous and often results in image and self respect distruction as it hinders the path heart towards what is right for us. But it is definately an inseperable part of human trait. This is what defines us and sets challenges in life to make our life worth persuing.
But like all evils this dnail alsp has a end and it comes with truth, truth that no one wants to hear but everybody stays on their toes to point it out for others.
Truth comes into our face as a friend's 'honest and healthy advice', as mean people's meanness, as parents' suggestion, as teacher's order, as boss's rebuk and sometimes even as termination letter.
But it is upto us where we wish to take a break, listen to our hearts and start accepting the truth.
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We think we are are all too grown up and mature to exhibit our pain, distress, happiness, tears, joy, etc. And automatically decide to live in denial.
Many of us take years before finally giving into love, many of us never as adult accept that we are nothing without our parents, many of us never accept our failures, many of bachelors specially boys never accept that they desperatly wish to settle down and stop hunting around.
Denial is dangerous and often results in image and self respect distruction as it hinders the path heart towards what is right for us. But it is definately an inseperable part of human trait. This is what defines us and sets challenges in life to make our life worth persuing.
But like all evils this dnail alsp has a end and it comes with truth, truth that no one wants to hear but everybody stays on their toes to point it out for others.
Truth comes into our face as a friend's 'honest and healthy advice', as mean people's meanness, as parents' suggestion, as teacher's order, as boss's rebuk and sometimes even as termination letter.
But it is upto us where we wish to take a break, listen to our hearts and start accepting the truth.
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